41st ANNUAL CAKE SHOW AND CONSUMER FAIR 2015

There are some “must do” things I don’t miss every year in namma bengaluru city – like the bi-annual Lalbagh flower show or at least one exhibition at Chitrakala Parishat.

The annual cake exhibition is one such event I look forward to every year. It is usually held in December every year at St. Joseph’s Indian High School grounds. This year it is their 41st cake show and is on from 18th December 2015 to 3rd January 2016 – check out details at the end of this article.

For me, it is a lovely way to end the year – checking out the cakes and stalls, taking in the goodies, shopping and pigging out on the food at the food stalls.

The exhibition usually consists of huge, grand cakes greeting you as you enter– this year there was a cake depicting The lost city of Atlantis- underwater marine world and variety of other cakes…. impressive cakes for me was a Tinkle comic book (I always love Tinkle) and a lovely fashion model. The place is usually packed with people who usually have a camera/mobile, clicking away the pictures of cakes right next to the sign that says “Photography Strictly Prohibited.” :)

Now comes the best part – after the cake show there are stalls that have some goodies – more cakes smaller ones this time (I bought a walnut cake), sweets, vada pav, juice ...

and THEN …THE CONSUMER FAIR!! If I gotta be honest, the yearly visit to the cake show is less about the cakes and more about shopping at the consumer fair;)

This is what I look forward to and when it comes to women and shopping…one can never get enough.

There are times I don’t buy a single thing yet I enjoy browsing through stuff in the various stalls and there are plenty of them.

From home and kitchen appliances to jewelry, from blankets to furniture, from footwear to novelty items….. there is something for everyone. I see some regulars whose stall I see year after year and then some new ones. I did not come away empty handed. Picked up a few items like a handy vegetable chopper, some cheap jewelry which I know I won’t use and probably give it away in a month or so, but it looked so glittery and inviting at the stall;) . I specifically liked the Rangoli plates that make pretty Rangoli patterns. I make sure I visit every single stall and hover around and listen to the sales guys/girls giving me their best sales pitch.

Once all the stalls are done with, there follows a food court and more stalls selling food from hot bajjis and chaats to sugarcane juice. This year I carried my own Tiffin box which I stuffed with spicy bajjis and sandwiches. I sat in the school grounds like I do every year. It is relatively empty as it is holidays for the school kids.

As I munch on the snacks, I think back on the year that has passed by, the goals I ticked off on my list and the ones pending to be carried over to the next year.

As far as traditions go, I have ticked this one off my list – visit the annual cake show and write about it and I can’t think of a better way to end my year of writing reviews on my blog.

Rating: 4

Ratings for reviews:

1 – No! No! No!
2- Just about average.
3 –Good. Can give it a try.
4- Great!!
5 – Yes! Yes! Yes! And I’ll tell all about it.

Details:
41 Annual Cake Exhibition from 18th December 2015 to 3rd January 2016

Timings: 11 am to 9 pm

Venue: St. Joseph’s Indian High School grounds,
opposite Kanteerava Stadium
Bengaluru.

Ticket price: Rs. 49/- per head.

CLUB CITRUS – UNISEX SALON AND SPA - A REVIEW

I dislike spa/parlors. Unlike most women who look forward to parlor visits for a relaxing session where they are pampered, for me going to the parlor is as scary as going to a dentist. I am terrified how that hair cut is going to turn out. My nails have to be shaped in a perfect “V” and not a “U.” As for the pedicure or a manicure, I am usually quick to point out a spot missed or keep up a running dialogue on how I want it this way and not like that and so on. It’s a wonder the girls don’t dig into my nails or cut all my hair off.

After trying out many parlors over the years, I have found a parlor near my place where the girls there know and understand me so well that I am not usually crabby with them.

Just for variety in my life, I decided to try a new parlor and zeroed in on Club Citrus. I walked in with my usual apprehensions was a greeted with a quiet place, dim lights and pipe music. I decided to go in for a pedicure and a haircut.

Though I started off with the pedicure followed by the haircut, I’ll talk about the haircut first. Rather gloss over it quickly. The stylist did a decent job, overall trim with split ends removed. It was a lot shorter than I wanted it to be. I can’t say I was too happy but then I am yet to find a hair cut that will make me go WOW!

I can’t blame the stylist. God punished me for my finicky attitude with unruly curls with a mind of its own. So all in all it was okay-ish.

Now for the pedicure – What pleased me most here is there is an exclusive room for the pedicure where only one person at a time can enjoy the service. This gets thumbs up from me because it is unlike other parlors I have visited where there are people getting various services done within arms distance and you witness things like ugly body hair or a skin infection which you ideally shouldn’t.

I was offered a choice of tea/coffee which I politely declined. I could have done with a few magazines but I dint see any around the room.

The pedicure started real slow. In fact the entire process took its own sweet time. At first my restless personality couldn’t take it and I had to fight the urge to get up and go. But with time I relaxed. I mean really, really relaxed which is a rarity for me. For once, after a few initial instructions, I actually kept silent and soaked in the music and the atmosphere.

What happened through the elaborate cleaning and scrubbing, ending up with my feet wrapped in hot towels, I found the noise within me had reduced.

Just as it should be.

The place is clean, pleasing to the eye. Service is good. Staff are friendly. Atmosphere is soothing and rates are reasonable.

Would I visit again? Not if I am in a hurry and want an express pedicure which my local parlor provides, but definitely for a long relaxing experience or maybe even give their other services like a manicure or a head massage or body scrubs etc a try.

Visit their website http://www.clubcitrus.in/home.html
for more details on services.

Address:

CLUB CITRUS UNISEX SALON AND SPA

# 537/1, Robby Arcade, 1st Floor, CMH Road, Indira Nagar 1st Stage, Opp. Metro Station, Bengaluru, Karnataka 560038
080 2521 2288

RATING: 3.5.

Would have given it a 5 if my haircut had made me go WOW!;)

Ratings: Ratings for reviews:

1 – No! No! No!
2- Just about average.
3 –Good. Can give it a try.
4- Great!!
5 – Yes! Yes! Yes! And I’ll tell all about it.

THE STRANGER BESIDE ME - BOOK REVIEW

Killers fascinate me. Not the kind who kill impulsively in a fit of rage or in an inebriated state or for revenge. I am talking about the kinds who kill just because.

Killers who look so ordinary and non descript – the kind you might be sitting next to on a bus or train, the kind who could be your next door neighbor or a colleague, who look harmless and conduct themselves as warm, decent,friendly individuals. They could have everything going for them. Yet they make killing a hobby because for them, killing is fun.

Theodore Robert Bundy or Ted Bundy is one of them.

Ted Bundy – described as the perfect son, the perfect student, the boy scout grown into adulthood, a genius, as handsome as a movie idol, a sensitive psychiatric social worker, a budding lawyer, a trusted friend, a young man for whom the future could surely only hold success.

Ted Bundy – Serial killer rapist who killed at least 30 women brutally and believed to have killed close to 100 or more - only he knew the real number, a master manipulator, sadistic monster, pathological liar, sometimes killing and gravely injuring up to five women in a matter of minutes, luring a woman by playing the role of an injured man needing help.. killing her and then returning to the same spot and luring yet another to do the same and succeeding!! Easily described as one of the most terrifying humans to walk on this earth.


Written by the queen of true crime stories, author Ann Rule’s book “The stranger beside me” traces the life of Ted Bundy right from his birth, family background, career as a student, as a co worker working right beside Ann Rule, saving lives of those in danger in a crisis hotline center to all the killings he has committed and leading right up to his trial and his death on the electric chair (Thank you god!).

The Judge's final words to Ted Bundy after sentencing....

"It is ordered that you be put to death by a current of electricity that current be passed through your body until you are dead. Take care of yourself, young man. I say that to you sincerely; take care of yourself, please. It is an utter tragedy for this court to see such a total waste of humanity as I've experienced in this courtroom. You're a bright young man. You'd have made a good lawyer, and I would have loved to have you practice in front of me, but you went another way, partner.


So who is the real Ted Bundy who evoked such words from the judge himself? What made him go on a killing spree when he had it all? What were author Ann rule’s feelings and experience working with Ted Bundy in late night shifts at the crisis center and all her interactions with him after that? How could he save lives, his voice warm and reassuring at the crisis center and yet commit such horrific crimes himself?

The book starts with some information on how it all started for Ann Rule to be writing about Ted Bundy. Moving on to frequently asked questions about Ted Bundy, to Ann’s own experience at the Seattle crisis hot line center with Ted as her close friend and confidant, and then starts the life (and death) story of Theodore Robert Bundy with updates twenty years later.

WHAAATTT?? OH MY GOD!! NOOOOO!!CREEP ALERT! REALLY??!! SHOCKING! I AM CHILLED TO THE BONE! SHIVERRRRRR!! ARE MY DOORS DOUBLE LOCKED? AND FINALLY, I CANT GO TO SLEEP!! are some of the very few feelings I experienced in turns as stayed up reading late until the wee hours of the morning unable to put down the book. If I had to put it all in one word for me, the book (updated 20th Anniversary Version) is flawless. No detail has been left out.

It is like a beautiful embroidery work. The various sequence of events are threaded without a stitch out of place and the final picture is worthy of admiration with thumbs up for the extensive research, minute detailing and straight from the heart perspectives. What’s more, unlike other of Ann Rule books which are more about the killer, this one is all the more fascinating being autobiographical in content because she was Ted Bundy’s close friend and yet had absolutely no clue about the savage killer behind the oh – so- charming mask and boy! when she finally found out…… read the book to find out more;) Sleepless night guaranteed.

Warning: Not for the faint hearted.

Rating: 5/5.

Why?: I’ve read almost all her books and loved them. Unlike her other books however, I dint just read it and leave it at that. “The Stranger beside me” not only had me hooked, but post reading the book, I wanted to know more. I went on the internet, read up a lot about Ted Bundy, about Ann Rule, watched his videos, parts of the trial, his last interview before his execution and was inspired enough to write in my blog about it. That, to me, is a benchmark of a good book:)

Ratings: Ratings for reviews:

1 – No! No! No!
2- Just about average.
3 –Good. Can give it a try.
4- Great!!
5 – Yes! Yes! Yes! And I’ll tell all about it.

COMFORT FOOD – CHAAT @13TH MAIN INDIRANAGAR.

Most of us have one special dish or drink that we turn to for comfort, food that makes our mouth water, food that we can have any time when offered to us, comfort food that offers just that…comfort. For some it is a mug of hot chocolate or piping hot noodles. It could be chocolates, or a special curry that only mom makes. For me it is usually chaat. And chaat, especially from a street vendor in Indiranagar 13th Main.

Being a foodie and a chaat-o-holic, I’ve had my fair share of chaat from various places. From fancy restaurants that charge exorbitant prices to the roadside vendors who are a dime a dozen on the streets of Bengaluru. I am yet to find any chaat place that offers better chaat than the one I visit at 13th main Indiranagar and the chaat is sold in a cart. Yep. No address. Just landmarks (next to Ginger Tiger and Lakeview milk bar).

The chaat offered here are the usual fare, masala puri, pani puri, bhel, sev puri, dahi puri, papdi chaat, samosa chaat and my all time favorites – Aloo puri and tomato chaat. All are reasonably priced and served in a way that the presentation is as good as the taste. There are disposable plates and spoons for those who prefer them. There are days I have waited rather impatiently for 4 p.m. the time when the chaat cart is open, dreaming of puri’s stuffed with boiled potatoes, spicy gravy (unlike anywhere else I have tasted ) , decorated with chopped onions, coriander and mixture or a bed of thin tomato slices with chutneys and gravy drowning in puffed rice.

This place has been around for ages. I have eaten here with my brother during his extremely rare visits to India (our only bonding factor is the chaat we eat here whenever he is in the city), with many friends, with a theatre group I was once a part of…..like I said for ages!

I have eaten chaat here when I have craved for it (which is often), when I need to sort things out in my mind, when I feel down, when I feel happy, and against doctor’s orders, even when I had typhoid and could barely walk up to the cart!!

Yet years later I have not got tired of it.

Most people in Bengaluru would have tried chaat sometime or the other and swear by their favorite place (there is no dearth of chaat joints here in the city). As for me, I know exactly where to head to when I need my dose of comfort food because what I get here is not just chaat but a plateful of happiness.

MUSIC CLASSES AT RHYTHMS INSTITUTE – A COURSE REVIEW

I was always drawn towards percussion instruments. There is something about drums or drum like beats that just gets to me in a way I can’t put it in words.

Music, for me, up until now was only for listening pleasure, other than using it as a background to conduct activities for teaching/training.

Learning a musical instrument was on my bucket list… but I have always had a packed schedule and though I have done dozens of courses and workshops ranging from useful to downright crazy in my life , I never got around actually signing up for music classes until this year (2015).

I zeroed in on an institute close to my place….Rhythms Institute of Fine arts.
Naturally, my choice of instruments was the drums ….not the Djembe which I play at the monthly drum jam but the drum set.

Then, as an afterthought and because I have time on hand while waiting for some personal issues to settle, I also signed up for keyboard classes.

I almost dint.

What I was looking for from the course and what Rhythms offered:

It has to be somewhere close by (5 minutes from my place)

Flexible timings / not eat into my personal time (weekdays.. weekends the timings and the number of hours worked for me)

Safe and Comfortable atmosphere (Really at ease here)

Reasonably priced (Verrry reasonable)

A “good” teacher. (It is one thing to be skilled at something. Totally different thing to impart it well to someone who wants to learn).

That sums it up for the course and the institute.

The intention behind learning music was not to become a professional musician or to perform on stage.

All I wanted was something to calm me down, to bridge the gap between listening and playing, to make music a part of my daily routine beyond crooning in the bathroom, and to just simply enjoy the process of playing a musical instrument.

I found it all.

And surprise! Surprise! It wasn’t with drums. It was with the keyboard. Not to say drums aren’t fun. I do enjoy playing ‘em too. But it was keyboard that offered me all of the above when I wasn’t even expecting it.

The thrill of getting the notes right and to be able to play a song flawlessly is joyous.

I am glad to have a “good” teacher who makes sure I learn and learn it well. Playing the keyboard relaxes me. I am calmer and sleep better ever since I started the course. I take pride in playing some of my favorite songs week after week, me who only listened to music, who never thought could actually play any musical instrument… the gap is closing.

I thoroughly enjoy the process of playing the keyboard and eagerly wait for classes every week.

As for music being a part of my daily routine, today, not a single day goes by where I don’t play the keyboard. It is now my most treasured item in my room.

I feel truly blessed to be learning it and to experience peace on the keys whenever I like;)

To think all my needs are met from an instrument that I almost dint sign up for.

Better Homes and Gardens - A Magazine Review

Right from my teens, I have read a variety of magazines, ranging from magazines specially designed for heavy metal fans (no longer in publication) to the women centric ones. I usually enjoy doing book reviews but for a change felt the need to write a magazine review.

At first I thought I’d choose one I am very familiar with and which I read regularly like cosmopolitan for example. Then on second thoughts decided to review a magazine I was reading for the very first time. Less bias, more challenging.

Magazine of choice: Better Homes and Gardens and what’s more, it was their 100th issue this month (July 2015).

To be honest I don’t really care for home improvement mags. The one or two that I have read previously have been the kind that made me feel unless I am a celebrity with a huge mansion and hired a top interior designer it is quite unlikely that I can connect to anything written there and it’s not for ordinary folks like me with very ordinary homes- too glossy, too posh, too generally too!

Better Homes and Gardens was quite a pleasant surprise featuring the regulars’ editor’s note, letters to the editors (called in your words) amongst other articles.

Extras on this issue were 100 life tips to sort out your world for everything from the bedroom to the bathroom to different areas of your life. ….from cutting old PVC pipes in varying lengths to hold kitchen cutlery to improving relationships to style to gardens. Top marks for this feature. I thoroughly enjoyed reading the ideas that were simple and doable accompanied by some great pics.

I’d give this specific feature a 5/5 with 1 being the lowest and 5 being the highest on the rating scale.

The rest of the magazine had other features broadly listed below and my ratings and comments for the same which includes:

1. Celebrity interview – Suchitra Pillai – 4

2. Better Living - more products and tips and articles– 5

3. Better Fitness – On exercise and people who fall into various exercise categories– very interesting – 5

4. Better self care – on allergies – 4

5. Better health – the latest buzz on health news – 4

6. Garden plantings, structures and know hows – 4

7. Food and recipes – 2.

And ends with new products in the market.

Almost all the contents got top marks or nearly there except for the recipes. The recipes featured in this issue were for a potluck special. Unique though they seem, I do wish it used more “easy at hand” kitchen ingredients. For example: The barley and fruit salad.. not all have blueberries handy and I don’t even know what a fennel bulb is let alone slicing and coring it.

To be fair, I dint want to just judge the recipes based on this one issue so I did refer to some of the other issues. Being a complete foodie, I prefer recipes that are more “earthy.”

There didn’t seem to be anything appealing enough for me to eagerly try it out which is usually the case when I read recipes from some of the other magazines.

That said, the overall ratings for the magazine:

Readability – 5 it did keep me interested.

Contents – 5 – a good mix of various topics and well written too.

Color/layout/photos – 5 (wowsa!)

The true worth of a magazine read for the first time lies in one question

Would I buy this magazine again?

And for Better Homes and Gardens, it’s a YESSS!! I am definitely adding this to my monthly list of magazines.

Overall – 5/5.

THE ALL NEW WESTSIDE STORE – A SHOPPING EXPERIENCE REVIEW

If you look into my rather large clothes cupboard, you’ll find that most of my clothes are from Westside. I specially buy my tees and tops only from Westside.

Westside has stores located all across Bangalore and I have been to most of them. There is one in Commercial Street too which I visit often. So when I heard of ANOTHER Westside store newly opened off Commercial Street, I was thrilled to bits. When it comes to women and shopping, one is never enough:)

The store: The first thing that hit me was it is vast. Vast space, Vast collection of clothes, so much more to choose from for both Indian and western wear and lingerie. It’s pristine and their clothes collection is well displayed.

The plus side to Westside:

1. Larger store, so more space to move around. The other store in the same area is less spacious.

2. Wider range of clothes to select from, especially western wear.

3. Clothes are well displayed.

4. Prices are reasonable as it has always been.

The minus side to Westside:

1. While I intensely dislike staff breathing down my neck and asking me multiple times if I need help while shopping, the other extreme isn’t an option either. There is no one around for asking about sizes or color or anything for that matter. This store really needs to up its customer service.

2. The mirrors: Every decent clothing store has full length mirrors set close to the clothes racks. Here there are none. So if you choose a T-shirt or any item of clothing and want to hold it up against you to see how it looks on you (not even try it on), one has to walk the entire length of the store to the trial room situated in at the other end to check it out in the mirrors there. Try doing it a couple of times and ask any woman how frustrating it can be.

On the other hand, you’ll probably burn a few calories:)

3. The fitting rooms: Well lit and clean. Here’s how it used to work before. One chooses any number of clothes to try it out in the fitting room. You are however allowed to take in only three at a time with you inside. Once you try it out, usually the doors are built in a way that you and the staff can pass clothes over the door back and forth till you find one that you like. Sometimes it is just to find the right size.
This store has really high doors – another point of frustration. Just how many times do you keep dressing up to come out and take a new batch in? The times I have been there (twice), there was no staff around the fitting room to even help out with anything which meant… yeah walking across the entire length of the store just for a different size.

Go there ONLY if, like me, you love shopping are willing to overlook the minuses mentioned above.

It is early days yet and fingers crossed, the management cares to improve the store’s shopping experience for their customers.

Overall rating for my shopping experience: 2.5

Ratings: Ratings for reviews:

1 – No! No! No!
2- Just about average.
3 –Good. Can give it a try.
4- Great!!
5 – Yes! Yes! Yes! And I’ll tell all about it.

COMMUNITY DRUM JAM BANGALORE - EVENT REVIEW

One Sunday in a month, I don’t cook. I don’t clean. I don’t go out or schedule any tasks that require a lot of my time and energy. I save my energy for a special event that takes place at the Rangoli Metro Arts Center, near the MG road metro station, Bangalore. Yes, the community drum Jam headed by Roberto Narian and Vasundhara das and the drum jam team.


How it works as a process: A date for a Sunday is fixed. It is usually known through their Facebook page. Those who attend the drum jam regularly, the date for the next month will be put up at the metro station. Timings are usually between 4 pm to 6 p.m. The event is free for all.


There is a free Djembe workshop an hour before the event from 3 pm to 4 pm for those who’d like to learn some basics of drumming. The area is strewn with chairs, Djembe’s and tambourines. Anyone can pick up a drum and start drumming. A group of professional drummers maintain the basic grooves and the rest of the crowd (and there are hundreds joining in), keep the rhythm going.


How it works in spirit: One can be 4 years old or 40 years, one can be an auto driver or a CEO, one can be an Indian or a foreigner, a girl or guy, a regular to the jam or a passer by, a professional musician or someone who knows nothing about music, educated or not, regardless of what kind of person you are or where you are from, every single barrier that man has created disappears the moment the hands make contact with the drum. No one judges you. No one passes any comments. No one tells you how exactly to play a drum. Hands hurt. Sometimes the weather plays games– too hot, or just pours with rain, yet the beats go on for two hours nonstop and the energy as a group never dips.


I am yet to find an activity that embraces oneness as this. There is just one word that comes to mind when I witness this month after month – Magical!


How it works for me: Many months have passed since my first drum jam session. I ensure that I don’t miss the monthly session for just one reason – it’s free therapy!!. – if I am happy I just get happier and if I am low on energy and mood, I perk up like never before.

Regardless of what mood I am in or how I feel, post a drum jam session I always go home on a high. ALWAYS!

RASA – A RESTAURANT REVIEW

Situated on CMH road which already has its fair share of coffee lounges, rich food restaurants and darshinis, Rasa is unique for its organic menu. Rasa is set in an ambience of mithai pink furniture, very airy and overlooking the busy CMH road. Once there, I was handed a newspaper for a menu card citing all the happenings at Rasa – the once a month farmer’s market and other events.

Tucked away in the corner of a newsletter is a simple menu offering three different combos of lunch – A diabetic lunch box, a quick lunch which comes with limited options and a super set lunch box which I choose.

Priced at Rs.300, you are served starters of murukkus and chips with a variety of pickles to dip into. The pickles were finger licking tongue tingling good and besides chips n pickles are an awesome combination. This was followed by the main course and then came the dessert.

There is definitely are a healthy mix of vegetables though those of you looking to spice things up are better off at any of the Andhra joints for the food tends to be a tad bland.

Service is quick and courteous. I have experienced great service many times that I have been there, though at the time of going there with the intention of writing this review, I ended up asking about six times for a refill of the lime pickle. I would say those keen on healthy wholesome vegetarian fare should definitely check out this place.

What I had: Started with Murukkus, papads and banana chips. Pickles were lime, ginger, beetroot and seasonal mango pickles.

Main: Chappathi’s (these are unlimited, thin and oil free and taste great with the curries), vegetable kurma, beans curry(dry) , Rice, curd, sambar, tomato rasam, avial, Knol Khol curd based curry, bhendhi pachadi.

Dessert: Jackfruit payasam.

What I liked best: The fresh pickles, chapathis, the airy space, the time taken to deliver and the décor.

What could do with improvements: Let’s look at it this way, it is value for money, wide range of dishes, healthy, home like so why aint I going there more often??? The human mind craves variety. The menu never varies though the vegetables do. So I suppose soups, variation in desserts (not payasam again!!), butter milk, salads to keep it healthy but different, can be introduced each time.

Ratings: Ratings for reviews:

1 – No! No! No!
2- Just about average.
3 –Good. Can give it a try.
4- Great!!
5 – Yes! Yes! Yes! And I’ll tell all about it.

SERVICE: 4 DÉCOR: 4 FOOD: 3.5 - and yeah, I will tell all to check out this place:)

INDIA'S DAUGHTER - A DOCUMENTARY REVIEW

I got to watch the rather controversial documentary India’s Daughter which has been banned in our country. The documentary is based on the 2012 Delhi gang rape and murder of a physiotherapy student.

Having watched it, I can sum it up in short sentences

1.That the documentary was not one sided, rather quite wholesome in its approach. It was not just about the rapist and the victim. Every other aspect and people that mattered was touched upon in the one hour that it lasted.

2.That it passed no judgments and left it to us, viewers, how we perceive it.

3.That it is a must watch.

I could not really understand why it was banned here so I read up on the articles, comments, spoke to people and I got some really petty (in my opinion) responses:

“How could they allow a foreigner to make such a movie”? (I suppose an Indian who made the same thing makes things better and the issue more soothing?)

“I believe they paid the rapist Rs. 40,000 to do the interview” (why would he or any criminal agree to do an interview on what happened without some vested interest and how else can one get the first hand information?)

“I can’t believe they did the interview and he wasn’t even wearing his prison uniform” (I suppose a change of clothes, say maybe a suit, would also change the way he thinks!!)

And so on it went.

And through all this, there was one emotion that dominated everything - Anger.

Anger against the ban. Anger after watching the documentary (those who managed to). Anger on the regressive attitudes of some in the film. Anger about this and that or the other related to the documentary.

So let’s talk about anger.

"Anybody can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way - that is not easy."- Aristotle.

After watching the documentary:

Let us get angry that basic Education is still a luxury for many people.

Let us get angry that despite growing economically in leaps and bounds, there are people still living in the most deplorable conditions.

Let us get angry that people who we are supposed to turn to for justice, the lawyers, speak without filters in their brain.

Let us get angry that the people in authority are most comfortable to brush critical issues under the carpet.

Let us get angry about alcohol abuse and the consequences.

Let us get angry about the lack of focus on what is important to bring about positive change.

Anger is not at all a negative emotion.

Used wisely, anger leads to action. After all it was anger that united people against the atrocious crime. Anger that woke up the sleepy government to act. Anger that brought about amendments in the law related to rape. Anger that said enough is enough.

Let us get angry and let us direct our anger where it is needed the most.

ABHINETRI REVIEW - THE TRAGEDY OF A LEGEND (2015)

Abhinetri is a Kannada movie released recently. The story is based on the late actress Kalpana’s life story. Pooja Gandhi plays the lead role. She was average. The other actors were average. The Props were average. The story line was average. The film overall was average. The reviews were average. That’s about it where the movie is concerned. Here’s my take on why it could have been better.

Let’s talk about Legends for a minute. You’ll find that most and I say most, not all, have a pattern.

1. Born in a poor family, struggling for a living.

2. Have a passion and talent that is unique and will do anything to fulfill it.

3. Crawl their way to the top. Some get exploited in the process.

4. Become super famous and get used to a certain lifestyle.

5. Develop big time attitudes stemming from insecurities from the past and fear of losing what they already have.

6.# 5 above ultimately leads to their downfall – mostly self created. They suffer humiliation, loneliness, take to substance abuse, self harm and die.

Had the movie centered around what fame does to a person as a theme and revolved around a random story, the movie probably would have worked. Movies as this have been made

Down – Rise-Peak-Fall pattern and there is a lesson in it every time.

The pattern dint vary in this movie either.

BUT we are talking about Kalpana – Kannada’s Minugu Thaare (Shining Star) who’s acting is par excellence. Whose Iconic songs are played over and over again even to this day, and some of the scenes from her movies are truly unforgettable.

I tried to be open minded about it. It does take guts to pull off a role representing the late actress. I know it is unfair to compare. These are two different individuals.

BUT we are talking about Kalpana.

Having watching Sharapanjara (played by Kalpana) a few days before watching Abhinetri one can take lessons on to portray pain. And in this movie, watching songs like Tam nam, Tam nam modernized, replicating Sharapanjara’s climax scene even as part of the movie made me wish for one thing throughout as I sat seated in the theatre :

LEGENDS ARE BETTER LEFT ALONE!!

And that says it all.

PRODUCT REVIEW: AVON'S RED ROSE AND PEACH SHOWER GEL

Ratings for reviews:

1 – No! No! No!
2- Just about average.
3 –Good. Can give it a try.
4- Great!!
5 – Yes! Yes! Yes! And I’ll tell all about it.

I am on a mission. I am looking for that perfect fresh ‘just after bath’ scent that a product can give and one that lasts. There is nothing like just stepping out of a bath and dressing up, smelling heavenly and where the people around you notice too!!

I have that indescribable dream scent that I want to own, one that makes me smell heavenly throughout the day, not a perfume but a shower gel or soap. I have tried loads of shower gels in the market but none that has met my standards.

Avon’s Red Rose and Peach shower gel.

The first thing that caught my eye was “Instant Freshness.”

Then the drool worthy description: “Indulge in the sultry fragrance of romantic red rose petals kissed by luscious peaches and delectable plums. This moisturizing shower gel leaves skin cleansed and conditioned”

My experience with the product:

The up side is I liked the packaging with its images of roses and peach (see pic). My skin did feel cleansed and soft. The fragrance is mild and definitely makes you go mmmm!!

The down side is that is how I would like to keep smelling for at least a few hours, if not the whole day and the fragrance doesn’t last. Not even for a reasonable while say an hour or so. So if you are looking for a nice shower gel that smells good and leaves you feeling clean, then this is it.

Me? As I mentioned before I am still hunting for the elusive dream scent that lasts and lasts!

Product rating: 3 out of 5.